TeAMwOrK Tuesday-

Our Tuesday's are nutty! It was the same again today- but boy, did we work well together. We hit a real rough patch a couple weeks ago- just getting back to school; routine, schedule, have-to-dos.. you know, the usual stuff.

We are back in action and have hit our stride again- Go Team Frederick!

I got everybody up- or should I say they got me up. I have incredibly early risers before 6. We did our morning services, ate, got ready and were out the door and to school on time. I came home to do a couple more chores and headed out to the office supply store to get some stuff for Nick and the party store for Lauren's invites. I finished off two mailers for Nick (merging, printing, stuffing, mailing). Then started the planning details for Lauren's bday party- can't believe she is 7 next week!

I picked up B & K from school- home for naps. I stayed the course of progress and did two loads of laundry (I've really got to start Foldapaloozas again). Did some expense reconciliation for Nick, faxed, emailed, started putting Lauren's invites together.

Girls are up- run to get Lauren. We have got A Lot ahead of us still. We stopped for an Icee @ Circle K- it's one of the girls favorite treats. They have a redboxDVD stand there so we visit for Free Monday movies. We came home- changed and rested for 15. Then headed out again with a list to accomplish- we were "on a mission."

TO DO (between 3:15 p.m. & 4:45)

1. Pick & Pay for Brooke & Kate's school pictures
2. Order Lauren's bday treats for school (special donuts)
3. make a deposit
4. return movies
5. mail letters for Nick
6. Library (Little House on the Prairie & American Girl- yes, we love them.)
7. arrived at gymnastics by 4:40.

Brooke is first. While she was in class, Lauren finished her homework packet and we finished up her party invites. Kate is good to hand out and "help" us. We visit with the other mothers and kiddos. It's Lauren's turn- Brooke and Kate entertain us all.

6:30 DONE! We head to Chick-fil-a for dinner (Kids Eat Free & the have activities)

7:10 HOME- bath for bath & well deserved BED.

We did it! I love my girls- we make a great team. They did fantastic today- so much, too much and they still had great attitudes & we enjoyed and accomplished the mission.

:)

My FaVoRiTe BLOGSPOTS:

This is where I go:

http://roosefam.blogspot.com/

http://audreycaroline.blogspot.com/

http://www.our-journey-to-parenthood.blogspot.com/

http://homemakersbychoice.blogspot.com/

National Stay At Home Week....

For All The MOST IMPORTANT Reasons we are at home most evenings!

I love home- I don't really drag the girls anywhere in the evenings, except for crazy Tuesday. Brooke has gymnastics at 4:45 then Lauren at 5:45. We don't get done until 6:45- we rush to Chick-fil-a for "kids eat free" and home for baths and bed. CRAZY! too much really... it will be great when they are in the same age group.

NOW THERE ARE A FEW MORE reasons to be home...

I too have my favorite shows I watch/ DVR:

1. Dancing with the Stars
2. Lipstick Jungle
3. Grey's Anatomy
4. Private Practice
5. Survivor

By day or re-runs:

1. Jon & Kate plus 8
2. What Not to Wear (I'd love to be a guest on the show- feel free to turn me in)

FREE FuN @ HoMe!!

I am a homebody- I really like to be at home. In fact, we have spent the last couple M,W,F's @ home. The girls love to rearrange stuff, imagine and pretend, play outside, and just do a million projects in a day- it's free, it's fun, and full of memory making material.

This is school- naptime

This is camping

Brooke loves to be outside

Kate would take this stroller everywhere...

Saturday breakfast outside

Out for a drive

Outside dinner- oh my, it's the same as breakfast. Daddy was traveling today and I was busy with that silly poster project.

Easy to please- gotta love it!

Daddy's home!

Date Nights with DADDY!

Here are a couple pictures on the latest dates with Daddy:

Diamond Back's Game with Daddy & Papa.

Brooke after a cotton candy and some time in the play area.

Snow in August in AZ- they had it brought in...

Book signing with Jack Hannah the animal guy.

We all love our dates with Daddy!!

xoxo :)

THIS is WRONG...

OK- so Kate is the "star" kid of the week. She will be the line leader, have special attention and needed to bring a poster to school. Problem: she is barely two and a half, only attends Tu & Thurs and doesn't cut, write and spell yet. soooo.....

note: Last year Brooke's poster was sweet- she had her ideas (she was 4), she picked out the pictures and we cut, glued and sent her to school proud. Well.... that poster hung in class all year long and was the ONLY poster made by the kid (get the picture).

...back to story- It was a family project this afternoon. We went to the dollar store and grabbed a couple craft supplies and came home to start printing, cutting, glueing and .... OK so it honestly took a couple hours. What's wrong- I really did it and after a good hour of saying; "calm down, not too much, please share, wait..." I finally yelled "go get ready for bed." I hate to admit it, but I did.

I should have just cut out some pictures, glued, wrote her name in and been done- but I didn't want those other mom's to outdo me again- because now I know it's really a project to show my skills. : ) I also remembered why I DO NOT scrapbook.

Here is a sweet picture of Kate with my, I mean her- poster : )














PS. Sorry for the picture- my camera has also taken a dive in the last week...

Happy Birthday Morgan!

My little, biggest brother just had his birthday! We are 17 months apart in a four kid family of which he is the tallest. I felt the closest to Morgan growing up. He has always held a special place in my heart- he is likable, lovable, gentle, unassuming, a good listener, loyal and incredibly trustworthy.

He was a special part of our wedding and Kate was named after him- Kate Morgan. To know him, is to love him. My girls adore him- I cherish that each of my brothers holds a special place with my girls. They love Uncle Morgan and had some signs and gifts to share with him- plus climbing time and some TLC.

We spent some time together on Saturday- swam with the girls, had some lunch and celebrated with cake and ice cream.

I love you Morgan- thank you for all the memories- thank you for always being there!
You are my brother and my friend! May this be your best year yet...

I'm A Homemaker By Choice

I am living the legacy I want to leave. I love to be at home with my girls. I belong to HBC- Homemakers By Choice. The group has been an incredible source of education, support, and weekly encouragement for the choice I have made to be at home.

Donna Otto is a nationally known author and speaker, she founded the group 20+ years ago.

Homemakers provides daily pod casting- check it out- also click on "show archives" to view past pod casts.

EnJoY!!

log on:
http://www.homemakersbychoice.org/

click on:
Pod Casting

listen on:
MP3, IPOD or Real Time

Home is Where OUR STORY begins...

I have some fond memories of being a kid and sharing my beginnings with my brothers. I remember we were always resourceful; making something from nothing, building, planning- working together... We fought, but we made up. We took turns being "best-buddies" where we would walk 6 or 7 blocks to take each other to McDonald's for some kind of "lunch" then Alpha Beta (the local grocery store-back then) for a toy out of the toy aisle. We also incorporated some video games at Appetitos-the pizza place next door.

We played freeze tag, mother may I, and other games with neighbors in our front yard. We rode bikes, made ramps, roller skated. We rotated assigned seats in our car, survived no air conditioning in the car, and managed to live without seat belts (they weren't the norm then). We watched TV, got into trouble, made a mess of the backyard and took things apart to see what was inside. . .

I can also remember feeling alone, afraid, not prepared, not worthy.. just feeling "NOT- "

What I dwell on is the good! What I celebrate is that God had a plan- he PLANNED my beginning, my family, my parents- and that is why I am who I am today. : )

I dabble in many books- one is "Unlocking the Secrets of Your Childhood Memories"

by Dr. Kevin Leman & Randy Carlson. It's interesting, insightful and helpful.

ANYWAY- I love family life! I love family gatherings, I love a house full of family fun and craziness- holidays, celebrations- bring on family! A few of my favorite movies are "Family Stone" and "Dan in Real Life". I love that they all gather- broken, dis functional, sinners- real people- but they gather in a safe place- family- in a home.

Nick and I work to build our family and our home. A soft place to fall, a home that is warm, safe, forgiving, healthy, happy. A family life that builds up, nurtures, grows in love, points to God, lives an example of his grace. I want my girls to follow after God, be seekers of his will and wisdom, whole, healthy, well rounded, sweet, fun, graceful, kind......

I watch them.. . I see it... all of these things... starting at home-

The girls and I made dinner together last night. I smiled at their interest in helping, the teamwork, the play, the laughing, getting along and them making memories for me.

Here's a picture of some cookie fun.

SPROUTS... RoCkS!

Can I just tell you again how much I love SPROUTS?!

TOP 4 Reasons this week...

1. Gala Apples 77 cents a lbs
2. Broccoli 99 cents a lbs
3. Red Bell peppers 2/ $1
4. Cantaloupe 3/$1

Hello?... that's just the beginning : )

BUdGeT BuSTeRs!!!

Why is it? Anytime we want to get on track with spending- there are tests...

OK- so we decided to go hardcore budget trimming on Friday (earlier post), this is what has come up since then.

Problem: Saturday: Laptop of 3 years, contains all my "important stuff"- DEAD!
Solution: Sunday paper, Dell on sale @ Best Buy- Monday morning- Brooke, Kate & I negotiated the laptop and some services with Geek Squad- picked up loaded, ready to go New laptop Monday afternoon!

Problem: Tuesday: Garage door will not work- won't close... first thought- OMG call repair.
Solution: Get a ladder, check it out, think hard, problem solve, release it, reset it. It works- thank you handy mom! : )

Problem: Tuesday night: "Everybody in the car"- we are headed to gymnastics. Start the car, NO AIR (it's still HOT here). Roll down the windows, re-live childhood days of NO AIR. Yuck. I have been telling the girls to be thankful for air conditioning- now they know why! : ) - actually they didn't even say anything...
Solution: Honda Service- A/C Transistor failed. - Negotiate (I always try to work it), got 10% off, a car wash and I was a happy camper with AIR by this afternoon! Thank you Nanny for all the running around today. : )

Note to Self: Love, Honor, Negotiate : )
and Keep a good attitude, these are lesson opportunities for both you and your girls-

Chicken Enchilada Recipe

These Enchiladas are yum. If I bring you a meal- this is likely to be it... : )

This recipe is doubled and makes two 9x12 casserole dishes*

30 small tortillas
2 large cans green chile enchilada sauce
4-cups shredded cheese (the taco blend)
1 diced onion
1 16oz sour cream
2 lbs chicken breast

Bake chicken, shred, add the diced onion.
In each tortilla put the chicken/onion mix, a dollop of sour cream, a spoonful of enchilada sauce, and a sprinkle of cheese.

Roll up and put into 2 9x12 baking dishes (15 or so in a pan). Pour the rest of the enchilada sauce over the top of the rolled tortillas and sprinkle the rest of the cheese on the top.

Bake 20 minutes at 350.

**This recipe is doubled- the extra pan can go in the freezer - You can make it in a throw-away foil baking pan so you have something ready for anyone who might need a meal (or, of course you can eat it yourself later).

Monday Madness... let the week begin!

so many details- so little time and energy to post....

OK- so I started this post Monday, just getting back to it.

WARNING: long post, lotsa info:

It's now Wednesday- What did I promise? A weekend update, meal plan... Well, Nick and I discussed some goals, budget and spending during our date on Thursday. We decided we would attack starting FRIDAY. We started by calling through accounts- looking to trim some fat- I got some interesting info from that. First, we obviously know that food is a major expense. It's time to stop using so many lines on the spreadsheet to feed the problem. (lunch, dinner, pay for others, grocery, entertainment).

Our findings from Friday research and calls:

1. You can't negotiate your city taxes. note to self -again- Scottsdale= expensive
2. AAA insurance we bundle home and car -it's the best for us.
3. SW Gas- water heater (should be set to 120degrees and the recirculating should be on a timer for hours you need hot water) and furnace (change your filters, recommended temp for winter 65-68 if your health permits)
4. Energy Specialist Hot line 800-654-2765 will send you a brochure on ways to cut costs and make your home more energy efficient.
5. APS we are on the time saver plan (noon-7p.m. are peak hours). I do everything I can on off hours, before bed and before noon.
6. Water co- looked up info on how often and how much to water our grass, trees, plants- changed accordingly.
7. Phone- we called, Qwest "couldn't do anything"
8. Cable/ Internet- they wanted us to bundle; cable, Internet and phone. Offered us all the phone service we currently have plus unlimited long distance for 24.99 mo (BIG savings for us) PLUS- I found a $100 rebate for switching- SCORE of the Day!
9. Cell- reviewed plan- switch to less minutes - savings again!!!
10. Car insurance- AAA best for us.
11. Gas- could drive less, not a huge priority- gotta have a life!
12. Water service- called, got info to go online fill out comment and got next months service free : )
13. FOOD: Yikes! Eat in more- starting NOW! : )

OK, so food. I went grocery shopping on Saturday- Fresh and Easy again. I used $30 in store coupons (i got while checking out).

Here are my meal options for this week:

Breakfast: Scrambled eggs, hard boiled, breakfast burrito, cereal, oatmeal, pb toast

Lunch: Turkey sandwich, tuna salad, pizza, grilled cheese/ soup and Favorite: Lemon cilantro chicken, lime cilantro hummus pita- OMG yum!!!

Dinner:

• Beef Tacos, chips/ guacamole, black beans
• Tuesday: Gymnastics night Chick-fil-a (kids eat free)
• Ravioli, Salad, garlic bread
• Cheesy eggs, bacon, English muffins, melons
• Baked chicken, broccoli, rice
• Chinese Chicken Salad
• Date night: Babysitter- Mac-n-cheese and fruit

fallback plan: Hungry Howie $5.99 large pizza.

OK- don't laugh- that's BIG for me. : )

Weekend Highlight: We decided to stay in for date night Saturday. Nick wanted to save and watch the ASU game. I wanted to do something special for Nick. I got a recipe he has been requesting from a friend and made him Chicken Enchiladas- oh so good! We loved the evening. : )

Is it Monday already?

oh boy, does the weekend go too fast. I have been out of touch having fun with my gang.

I have some fun weekend details, a new recipe and my weeks meal plan to share...

I'll fill you in a little later, I am off to retreive the data from my computer and make a new purchase... why is it everytime you review the budget and make adjustments a large purchase demands your attention...

I'll be back!

Celebrating My Mom!

In Honor of my Mother’s “59” Birthday
A Tribute To My M♥M!

My M♥M:

♥ Never gave up
♥ Taught me the real meaning of life
♥ Strong biblical foundation
♥ During my childhood, prayed for my future husband
♥ Made a home
♥ Kept life fun and interesting
♥ Creative ideas
♥ Always made dinner for us
♥ Said YES
♥ Made friends easily
♥ Rose above
♥ Tries, Does & Presses On
♥ Dreams
♥ Inspires
♥ Encourages

What I learned from my M♥M:

♥ To trust God with all my heart
♥ Seek Christ first- all the other stuff falls into place
♥ Pray
♥ Press on (by example)
♥ Claim God’s promises- and trust him
♥ To be a woman of your word
♥ Get up- try again…
♥ Forgive
♥ Love others
♥ Serve
♥ To Dream
♥ Don’t judge
♥ Be contentious of others
♥ Never give up
♥ It’s not all about me
♥ Build on solid ground
♥ Golden rule
♥ A love for, and the importance of making a home

“59” Blessings I Wish & Pray for You M♥M

A True Love- like Christ’s love for the church
Be Encouraged
Belly Laughs
Best Year Yet- “59”
Comfort (M P E S)
Desires Renewed
Disney Cruise
Dreams Come True
Encouragement to Women
Encouraging Sense of Purpose
Enjoy Vacations
Fancy Pair of Shoes
Favorite GaGa Forever!
Favorite Restaurant
Fireplace
Forgiveness
Forgotten Dreams Remembered
FREEdom
Friendship
Fun Fellowship to Cherish
Go on Double Dates together
Goals
Good Memories
Groceries in Your Fridge
Happy
Have a Dependable Car
Healthy
Hobby
Hope
Hope to Weary
HUSBAND- who exceeds your expectations
Independent
Inspiration to others
JOY
Kitchen to Cook In
Live Debt Free
Missions- possible
Money in the Bank
Needs Met
Opportunities to Entertain in Your Home
Owe NO ONE
Peace
Personal Sense of Accomplishment
Place to Call Your own- Happy Home
Quiet Time
Recipient of Labors of Love
Reconciliation
Social Group to Play With
Success & Fulfillment in Your Workplace
TIME
Travel – Come True
TRUE Retirement- to play with daughter & girls
Unique Experiences
Wants- a Considerable Option
Wardrobe- You pick/ Your Taste
Warm & Happy Family Gatherings
Whole
Youth Restored

Zest For Life

Happy Birthday Mom!

I love you !

I am blessed to have you in my life and a part of my sweet, treasured days.

Thanks for being YoU & having Me!

You are my Mom by birth and my friend by choice.

Happy Birthday to GaGa!!!

Happy, Happy, Happiest Birthday to our GaGa!!!

Love,

Your Biggest Fans- Lauren, Brooke & Kate

In case you wanted more...version 2

Remembering 9/11/2001

I can remember the day vividly. Nick had arrived in Hawaii for a Club trip the night before. I was home alone, in my last month of pregnancy with Lauren. I woke to the phone ringing. My youngest brother lived in New York at the time. The call was to tell me my brother was OK- and phone lines were delayed in NY, but he was OK- and I should turn on my TV right away.

I turned on the News- and tried to get ready for work and the day ahead. Work- it was hard- we were all glued to the TV. I called Nick as soon as the time difference put Hawaii at wake up time. We both were in awe.

My family wasn’t directly affected, but we all live with repercussions…

The other family that I was drawn to in the aftermath was The Beamer Family. I was moved by the actions of Todd Beamer and the others from Flt 93. I was mesmerized by the book Lisa Beamer wrote in honor of her late husband- Todd Beamer- “Let’s Roll”.

I was captured by their love story, their family, and the paths they had taken to get them to where they were. It reminded me of Nick & I in so many ways. The way they met, they had both worked for Oracle, how Todd viewed and worked his job. His love for his family, their love, she was pregnant- I just felt so many similarities.

“Let’s Roll” is still one of my favorite books- and I wonder what has happened to the Lisa Beamer and her family…

Today as I remember 9/11. I am thankful for all of the armed service men and women who serve our country. FREEdom does not come FREE…. Let us not forget the day, the lives lost, the hero’s, and the service men and women who are serving and protecting us today-

FuN FAsHiOn FiNDs!

I'm hanging at home today- girls are down for a nap and I am done with my duties... just putzin' around and found this fun stuff-

Fashion Steals for Fall!

http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/133/fashion-steals-for-fall

Best Jean 4 Your Figure:

http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/114/best-jeans-for-your-figure/;_ylt=Ai.WEemSp.oAVDBaV3ve7EJkWr8F

PS. My friend Katie swears by the store "BUCKLE" for jeans- they run jeans back and forth to you until you find your "PERFECT" Pear- I mean pair, of course. If you R a pear shape, can you really find a perfect fit? : )

10 Ways to Update Your Wardrobe

I found this at Kaboose.com a while ago....

With new trends popping up each season, it's easy to get lost in the world of fashion. For quick and easy ways to update your "look," check out 10 style tips that are guaranteed to make you look and feel better about yourself.

1. Purge! Before you can begin thinking about creating a new personal style or look, you must evaluate your current wardrobe. Go through each item of clothing in your closet and dresser. If you have not worn a particular item in the past 6 months – or if it does not fit well – then you should get rid of it. When you are finally free of your old wardrobe you will be mentally prepared to start anew. And the bonus is you'll now have space to fill your closet with brand-new pieces that flatter your figure.
2. A Clean Closet Is a Happy Closet. Organize your wardrobe by type, and then by color within each type. For example, arrange your closet as follows: dresses, skirts, pants, blazers and jackets, sweaters, blouses, long-sleeve shirts, and short-sleeve shirts. Organize items within each clothing type according to color, such as: black, brown, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet. Once your closet is organized you will be more likely to arrange complimentary pieces of clothing into a beautiful outfit.
3. Shoes, Shoes, Shoes! For a quick wardrobe fix, change your shoes. Imagine the look of jeans, a white button-down shirt, and ballet flats – cute, right? Now take the same clothing and throw on a pair of stiletto boots – sexy, right? This tip can be used to take a look from day to night, or casual to dressy.
4. Swap It! Either organize or attend a clothing swap party. At this event you and other women of the same (or similar) size trade clothing and accessories. (Now you know what to do with the items you purged from your closet.) This is not only a chance to have a girls' night, but you will essentially score a new outfit or two. Once you get home, feel free to play around with your new finds and add or remove embellishments from the garment, if you wish.
5. Layers. Another quick tip to update your look is play with layers. Layering is fun to do, and even allows you to wear warm-weather clothing in the winter! In addition, it is a great tool for women who are trying to hide a rounder belly. You can use layering in two ways – start with a little and pile on the clothing until you like your look, or start with a lot and take it off until you like your look. Essential layering items include: cardigan, thin long-sleeved t-shirt, blazer, and even a beautiful scarf or poncho.
6. Make Do With What You've Got!! If you have these four key items – the little black dress, trench coat, dangling earrings, and high-heeled pumps – you can look great for any night out. These four articles, when worn separately, can be the basis of four completely different looks. Don't get stuck in a fashion rut; experiment with your clothes.
7. The Basics. Now that you have rid yourself of that broomstick skirt and beaded neckline blouse, head to the store and invest some money into your new look. You should purchase the following basics: tanks, camisoles, crew necks, V-necks, and scoop-neck tees and tanks in neutral colors, such as brown, black, grey, and/or white. Pricey versions of these items can be found at high-end specialty stores, but try hitting up a superstore (e.g. Target) or retailers like TJ Maxx, Old Navy, and the Gap, instead. You can get quality items for a fraction of the cost.
8. Pants/Tops Ratio- We are sure that you have heard this numerous times, but we will gently remind you once more – there is no need to have an equal number of pants and tops in your wardrobe. People will look at your tops more often than they will take notice of your pants. For this reason, you only need a few trouser staples in your wardrobe: black pants (professional looking), brown and/or tan slacks, a great dark-wash pair of jeans that can be dressed up or down, and a pair of pants that fits your style (completely your choice, but make sure that they are flattering). When you shop, pay more attention to great tops, as they usually make or break the outfit.
9. Underneath It All. If you want to look (and feel) better about yourself, you must start inside. Yes, looking and feeling good comes from within, but we are talking specifically about your inner wear (or undergarments). A great bra and panty can take your look from frumpy and lumpy, to smooth and sleek. Purchase panties that not only provide you comfort, but show no visible lines when worn under clothing. If you are still feeling a bit self-conscious, invest in some shape wear, such as Spanx.
10. Signature Piece. Everyone is known for their signature piece, whether it is your grandmother's earrings or your favorite blazer. Whatever you do, don't lose yourself in the current trends and end up not having a style to call your own. Borrow ideas from celebrities and fashion magazines, but don't follow blindly. Sometimes the most beautifully dressed woman is the one who stays true to herself.

I found this article browsing around- it's by Deirdre Uria at Kaboose.com

I am working on "loving the skin that I'm in." This is a good start. When I feel good about my clothes and the outfits I wear, it makes it a tiny easier. I'd love to have a swap party (refer to # 4)- doesn't that sound like fun! Everybody cleans out their closet and then we get together and swap it. I have assorted sizes from my skinny days at 4- to my eat whatever you want size 12... who's in?

Remembering & Reflecting

My Grandpa would have been 98 years old today. He died in May of 2001- just days before I found out that I was carrying a baby girl (my Lauren). I wish I could have told him...

This post will be for me and my brothers, I just wanted to reminisce for a little while today...

Grandpa- Irwin Hames

• "safety first"
• "be a Strub, not a stup"
• wanted to provide and care for us
• had a bike shop in his backyard
• loved Darby's later called New Yorker
• was tall and lean (how tall was he?)
• had grey hair neatly combed
• had grey hair Einstein style after working in the yard
• He wore suspenders later in his life
• Had a parakeet named "money bags"
• drove a green vw bug
• would honk (beep, beep, beep, beep, beep) as he rounded the corner to our childhood home
• loved thrift stores
• took us on dates to McDonalds- "eat'm in twos" - with an apple pie for dessert
• took us to the library
• we loved to go to grandpa's house
• always had ice cream in the freezer
• "chew your food"
• lectures
• sat in his chair at his kitchen table to relax
• used to rain money (change) for us to collect
• always saved his change for us- dis pursed in a family ritual- we kids used it at Christmas to buy gifts- we thought we were rich
• collected (everything)
• State Avenue
• trips to Dairy queen riding double on banana seats
• the granny 3 wheeler that didn't last
• Inspection time
• Kitchen table gatherings
• Darby's/ New Yorker Dates
• "I don't want her germs"
• Friday nights watching Dallas at Grandpa's
• "Let's stop by Grandpa's"
• VW repair shop
• Grandpa Pumba
• "miracle's never cease- green light on Grand Ave."
• "drink more water, and shwiggle it around your mouth"

There are so many more- I smile just thinking of these. He was the closest Grandparent I had- I think losing your people is that saddest part of growing older.

I'm comforted knowing in Heaven there is no pain- and I will see him again...

Scissors Part 2

We went to get Brooke's hair fixed today after she and Kate took the scissors to it yesterday.

I wish life was that easy. There is a problem, you find it, discuss it, fix it and move on. Done!

Today was hard-on a couple levels. It was a day that reminds me of the verse Hebrews 12:1 -Surrounded by witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us Run with endurance the race that is set before us.

I also found James 3:17-18. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. 18- And a harvest of righteaousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.

This blog has turned into more than just a journal of fun for me.... has anybody else noticed. : )

HaPpY GRANDPARENT'S DaY!

We LOVE our Grandparents!

Team Frederick has a support Team!

We are very fortunate to have our Grandparents in town with us. It's only fitting we share some fun details about them and say an extra thank you on Grandparent's Day!

oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

GaGa- what's a GaGa?

Lauren named my mom GaGa. She was saying Grandma and it came out GaGa, and so it was and is to this day. The girls love GaGa. She is fun, lively, full of play and adventure. She loves to take the girls for experiences and is a hands on Grandma. I love that she really knows how we live, how we work as a team and our routines. Even though it is not necessarily the way she would do it- she honors my preferences and that means the world to me. We all have fun when GaGa's around. Full of life, smiles and entertainment- she can really run a party. She has help create some really great birthday parties for the girls. Their latest outing was yesterday while I was at the hospital with Nick. GaGa took the girls and Ky to a "Teddy Bear Tea." They loved it.

Thank you Mom for all your time, love and your dedication to my girls. Thank you for your affirming words and your constant encouragement. Your prayers are coveted and treasured. We love you!!

Grandpa & Gramma

My Dad and his wife of 15 years Carol. Gramma & Grandpa spent just about every Saturday at our house for the first 2 years of Lauren's little life. We love that habit they helped us create- Date night! We all cherished their commitment to us. We have some fun memories of Lauren's 1st year birthday on vacation in Vermont. The Vermont Teddy Bear factory, Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream tour and just the opportunity to vacation together. Gramma is our family photographer and has captured so many treasured memories of birthday parties, family gatherings and the holidays. We enjoy our weekends away with Grandpa & Gramma. Dad recently had a health scare- it makes me realize we just don't spend enough time together.

Thank you Dad and Carol for helping us to establish an important part of our marriage today- Date night. Thank you for your love and appreciation for our girls. I love that you are delighted to visit with them and that you celebrate their individuality. It's fun to see you enjoy my girls. Thank you for believing in us and encouraging us "to keep up the good work!" We love our cheerleaders!

xoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxox

Nanny & Papa

Nick and Nancy! Nick's parents have been married for 43 years! WOW! That in itself is a gift- to us and their grandchildren. What a legacy of love, devotion, commitment. We have had the great pleasure of traveling all over to visit our Nanny & Papa. They have been retired since I have known them- but certainly don't live a retired life. Nanny & Papa like to take the girls for special, individual dates. They love to treat the girls to fun and get a kick out of their personalities out and about without Mom. They took Lauren for a slumber party before school started at a local resort- we all got to enjoy that one. They took Brooke to build a bear and they always get a laugh out of Kate. They are a support to Nick and I when we ask and like to provide backup support for date nights.

Thank you Nanny and Papa for moving to town. We are glad you are here to experience the girls growing and changing. We are delighted that you making memories with the girls and want to take time to teach them new things. Thank you for your support- especially yesterday! It would have been impossible without you there. We love you!!

xoxxoxooxoxoxoxxoxoxxooxxo

It means the world to us to have

words of affirmation,

encouragement, love, support and HELP!

These are golden days with so much required of us-

we need you and we are so thankful you deliver.

Happy Grandparent's Day- to

THE WORLD'S GREATEST GRANDPARENTS!!

a little funny...

WHAT IS A GRANDPARENT? (Taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds)

• Grandparents are a lady and a man who have no little children of their own. They like other people's. A grandfather is a man & a grandmother is a lady!
• Grandparents don't have to do anything except be there when we come to see them.
• They are so old they shouldn't play hard or run.
• It is good if they drive us to the shops and give us money.
• When they take us for walks, they slow down past things like pretty leaves and caterpillars. They show us and talk to us about the colors of the flowers and also why we shouldn't step on 'cracks.
• 'They don't say, 'Hurry up.'
• Usually grandmothers are fat but not too fat to tie your shoes. They wear glasses and funny underwear. They can take their teeth and gums out.
• When Grandparents read to us, they don't skip. They don't mind if we ask for the same story over again.
• Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don't have television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with us.
• They know we should have snack time before bed time and they say prayers with us and kiss us even when we've acted bad.
• '' GRANDPA IS THE SMARTEST MAN ON EARTH! HE TEACHES ME GOOD THINGS BUT I DON'T GET TO SEE HIM ENOUGH TO GET AS SMART AS HIM!
• It's funny when they bend over, you hear gas leaks and they blame their dog.

Today's SCISSOR Experiment

We had our second scissor run-in this morning.

Kate cut her hair during the summer. She was almost to all one length- I had just had her hair trimmed (no discounts for tiny peoples thin hair- full price). Well, she nabbed some scissors while a sitter was here and went to town. She came out of it with bangs. They started at the back of her head and boy were they short! It wasn't that bad because her curls hid it some and at least it was out of her eyes.

Well, today... didn't turn out as well. I walked in to find Brooke and Kate taking turns cutting on one side of Brooke's head. Yikes. I have to admit I LOST IT! I was half asleep, not rested and grumpy. I immediately took the scissors away and had them sit in time out on their beds so I could collect myself. Looking back now, I over reacted- it's only hair and it will grow back... right? : )


The sad thing is that Brooke's hair matched her personality- it's was adorable. She got comments all the time from strangers we passed. I'd get "who cuts her hair?" or "where does she go?"- OMG she is 4.


Anyway, she is fun, cute and confident (often the "front man" for her sisters) so I am sure she will be able to pull of a short cut for a while.... right?





I'm off to look at pictures of pixie cuts or other options for our little scissor adventurer...



Tomorrow is her appointment to fix- we will share result pictures then...

Answered Prayer

Did I ever tell you Nick is an answered prayer? I am blessed- God is so good to me. He has given me things I never imaged I'd have in my life. Of all those blessings- I genuinely treasure Nick most. He is my "bestest" gift and wrapped so nicely. : ) And from that gift I have three extra special sweet little treasures.

Yesterday was the longest day of my life. My family has been blessed with good health. When you spend a day in the hospital you take that time to count your blessings and thank God for all the days you haven't spent there.

Nick's surgery went well. The Dr. removed a nodule from his left side only, right was fine. The nodule actually turned out to be the size of a tennis ball. We were surprised at the size and thankful that he was doing OK. It took quite a while to be called up to the recovery room- I was concerned. It all turned out fine- he should be coming home later today.

I love my Nick- I always have. We have shared a sweet love, deep connection- and a tender, loving 10 years together (so many more to come)... but it feels different today. Yesterday changed me. We went through something together that we hadn't had to face before. Even though I really didn't have any reason to fear- you ponder the possibilities, you wait- with no control over what is happening. I prayed, I read, I talked with Nick's parents- I felt OK, but it was LONG and I just couldn't wait to touch Nick- to see him and make sure he was OK.

I count my blessings a lot- but today it's different. It's not just a list of thank yous it's a thankful heart, sincere gratitude, a change, and an even deeper, stronger LOVE- for God & my Nick.

Thank you God for answered prayers... over and over again.

Before I was Mommy....

I was Aunt Mimi. I love my role as Aunt, of course it was easier when I didn't have little people of my own. I still love it- just don't get the quality time I'd like to be Aunt Mimi to the Strub side and Aunt Melissa to the Hinckley gang.

Let me tell you about the other little people in my life:

First, there was Skyla then came River. We used to get to spend quite a bit of time together. I loved to pick them up from school and have "Mimi Days". We used to go for treats, play, do crafts, have fun. We had a tradition for a couple years at the end of summer. We used to go school supply shopping. We would make it fun with "going on a mission and working with a budget." I treasure those memories and crave the time with them and wish I could have it back or at least more! Sky & Riv live in another state with their Mom- so it's only the occasional visit.

These are my most recent pictures. Aren't they gorgeous kids!! Oh, I just wanna hug'em! Time flies! I hope for the day when we live close again- or at least visit more regularly. I miss you guys!

Then there is the Hinckley Gang:
Jenna, Jake & Jadyn. I have always enjoyed our family gatherings. We travel for Christmas together and just hanging out in the craziness of all the cousins is a blast. It's fun to watch as the kids a growing how their relationships grow and change.

I haven't had the opportunity to have the one on one time with them that I would like- as they are in Oklahoma. I look forward to the possibility of having them come stay with us for some of the summer, as they get older- oooooh, wouldn't that be fun!! We've talked about gathering our clans together for a family cruise- I hope that will be soon!















Last, but certainly NOT least... Along came Jack!!

Nick and I had planned to name our son (who never came) Nicholas Jack Frederick. We wanted to call him Jack.

Jack had my heart even before I first held him. : ) I probably know most about Jack because I have had the sweet opportunity to care for him while my brother was away on a trip. We have also had a lot of family times where he is with us. I love that Mark and I are close and that he makes the effort and arrangements to visit often.

Jack is a sweet kid, full of personality. He is an entertainer- Brooke and Jack are quite the duo. They are the best of friends and very lively together- feeding off of each others energy. I called them "Dyno & mite" during the last visit. Mark is a super Papa (prefers Papa over Daddy) and it is always a fantastic time together. This last visit in August was the best yet!

He calls me Mimi, every time there is a package at his door he says "a package from Mimi"- oh, you gotta love that! : ) Brooke and I spent a weekend in Austin in April. We were there to celebrate his birthday & Big Boy pants rite of passage together. We brought a Buzz Lightyear costume for a gift and it was a favorite.

You can't know this kid and not LOVE him. I'd really like to keep him- he would fit in perfect! : ) I know I can't- it's OK... settling for Aunt Mimi- really isn't settling. I LOVE IT-

I LOVE them ALL. Oh boy, do I need a family fix! Bring on the Cousins!!

Prayer 4 the Weekend Ahead-

I covet your prayers this weekend. There is A LOT going on in my family and my heart is heavy.

• Nick will undergo surgery tomorrow morning to remove a 4cm Thyroid nodule.
• My Mom will be making some decisions and taking a big step this weekend-
• My big brother is trying to bring a dream to reality.
• My baby brother is on a European vacation solo.

God, I know these things don't come as a surprise to you. You knew our days before our life began, and you have a plan for each of us. I thank you for your grace and mercy and recognize your sovereignty. I thank you for all that you have done, and all that you are doing in my family. I ask that you would be with us this weekend- we would each feel your peace your comfort. I ask that you would guide the surgeons hands and protect Nick. I pray for your wisdom and direction in the days ahead. Thank you God for your love- your faithfulness- your blessings. Amen!

"This Is Your LIFE..."

I haven't done so well lately, but I try to get to the gym M, W, F mornings. I check the girls in and head up stairs to plug away at some type of cardio and some weights- I've got my hot pink i-pod and it is jam packed with over a thousand songs- it's funny, lately I stick to the handful I have purchased from i-tunes.

One of my favorites that always makes the cut is "This is your life" by Switchfoot. I like the music, I like the lyrics- makes me think, stirs me to do and be better. It's one of my theme songs- but, for me it goes deeper. It's not only about me (even on Thursdays)- I believe I am here for a bigger purpose than myself... I remember the scriptures of Psalms 139:13-16. God has a plan and purpose for my life.

"This is your life, are you who you want to be?"- even deeper- "This is my life, am I who God called me to be?" I want to LIVE the legacy I aspire to leave. (another favorite song- Nichole Nordeman- Legacy)

I have many roles I take seriously; I am a woman, wife, mother and keeper of my home. I am a daughter, sister, aunt, friend... I want to be the best and all that I am called to be in each.

I did a study last year that really helped me clarify, answer some of my questions, get connected, centered again and helped me move ahead. Sometimes we lose sight of the bigger picture in the midst of our daily "stuff". It was a personal study that asked me a million questions and in the end revealed my personality type, gifting, love language, strengths- weaknesses.. and on and on. I believe knowledge is power. I have been able to save myself a lot of grief by knowing these things. It helps me be intentional about the "projects" I take on and the direction we are taking our family.

It's a daily prayer- God, you have a plan and purpose for me- show me, help me. I want to be intentional about how I live, not just react to what is on my plate for the day. Help me see your big picture for me, my life, my family.

My mission for this year: Be intentional with a teachable heart. Reflect Gods love, hope and peace to my family and those who know me.

Back to the gym for another personal revelation- even if I spend every morning in the gym -if I do not eat right- I will not get the results I am looking for- I will not see the fruit of my hard, sweaty workout. Note to self: stay away from Paradise Bakery cookies!!!

Spiritual picture- practice what you preach. A healthy tree bears good fruit (Matthew 7:12-20) As a christian and believer, I live for someone other than myself... prove it. Am I showing it daily- Oh God, please help me...

"Legacy"- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vbi4nSrhRxo
"This is your life" http://www.last.fm/music/Switchfoot/+videos/+1-ESDosGlpvi0

LOVE Grows Here

I've been thinking of this post since Tuesday- just now getting time to get it out. I picked up Brooke and Kate from preschool after my oh so productive morning. Brooke was really upset- not the norm for Brookie. She is my lively, happy, easy going Brooke that usually can adjust to anything.

Turns out, she had run into a ROUGH, LOUD- little monster, I mean- boy on the playground after lunch. He had screamed at her "NO GIRLS ALLOWED" and growled at her. Oh, my little kid. She had a rough day and it was all compounded with being frustrated with writing out her numbers. I held her before nap, just said a little prayer and she started to cry. I melted- I was glad for the down time to be able to hold her and give her more TLC- or "Turtle C" as Kate calls it.

We picked up Lauren from school, we headed to McDonalds for a special treat (ice cream) and to play for a bit on the dirty jungle gym (you can't have it all- I figure I'll trade heat stroke for a million germs). On the way, Brooke explained the afternoon ordeal again and Lauren was so sweet to her and hugged her to give more comfort. That warms my heart. I love that they are usually sweet to each other and concerned about feelings.

At McDonalds they were playing together, helping each other around the gym and just having fun together. That kinda stuff reminds me that the days of hard work do pay off. I am seeing fruit from my labors of love. The extra time and attention to teaching and showing the qualities of Christ. It's an ongoing lesson for both me and the girls- but these days and times give me the encouragement I need to PRESS ON during the extra hard days.

Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. Hebrews 12:1-2

Organized blogging... ?

I love to be organized- I am finding that I even blog organized. Yikes- do I have issues? I guess the first step is to acknowledge. I might be able to ease up as the girls get older, but for now, being a little over the top organized- works for all of us.

I am finding that I post in paragraphs. I like to organize my subjects and categorize my thoughts. You may find me rambling but it's under a subject usually- so you can decide if you want to read on or not...

just a bit more about me...

Productivity...

OMG- can I just tell you how productive I am when no one is looking...

My girls are at school today- it's Tuesday. I've got to make a list- b cuz I LOVE LISTS! (one of these down days I'll have to share my "what I want in a mate" list I made 12 years ago- just for you Rik).

Back to TODAY's :

• I got everybody ready, out the door and to school by 8.
• Came home, picked up the remains from the morning chaos.
• Finished off the coffee, posted a blog
• Talked to MOM
• Started another round of laundry
• Checked email
• Finished my grocery list
• Made Nick's pre-op appointments
• Ran to the grocery- got food/ saved money
• Unloaded groceries
• Posted another blog
• Reloaded the washer
• Started the dishwasher

It's crazy- I get a high off this stuff it's only 11 a.m. I have another hour before utility costs go up and I have to get B & K from preschool. What else can I do? Oh, I should fold the laundry while watching a TV program of my choice...

Am I sharing too much? Probably, but it's new, it's my blog and it is what it is. : )

Let me be REAL-

OK- I just returned from Fresh & Easy (a great local, neighborhood grocery), I like it cuz I can get there quick- only takes me the length of ABBA's Momma Mia song. It's easy, and fresh and you can you coupons that they hand out freely. I didn't have any with me but Mr. Friendly gave me one $5 off for every $20 i spent. SCORE- saved $25. That's almost date night dinner out. : ) Mr. Frederick will be proud.

Anyway, I realized on the way home (ABBA- Dancing Queen) that I really don't cook- it's more like: heat and stir, toss, or throw together and serve.

I am OK with it. I'll hit Sprouts tomorrow after the gym. My good friend Katie led me to that find- Wednesday is double add day so you get last weeks add and the next weeks add. I can get a basket full of fresh fruit and produce for my clan- usually under $60 bucks. Yippee!

Stay tuned- If you promise not to laugh, I'll list my idea of a meal plan for the week soon. : )

MEAL TICKET

We love to eat out, it has it's own section in our budget- one cell for "dinner out" one cell for "lunch out", one cell for "pay for others", and when those funds run out there is always the "entertainment" cell to take from. It's bad! Weekends are the worst.

Well, it's a new month, a start to a new week and I am going to try to eat in more and make dinner at home. I need some ideas.... what is your families favorite easy meal at home? What do you usually make for lunch?

Come on- will you share it with me?? If we all share, we will each have new ideas to try at home.

I'll go first:

• My family is easy- they love my cheesy eggs. We do breakfast for dinner on a crazy night when I start dinner late. Cheesy eggs, bacon, fruit, toast. Easy!
• Chinese Chicken salad- bake some chicken, toss in salad, add some mandarin oranges, Chinese noodles, sliced almonds and add dressing- Good Seasons Asian Sesame with ginger. yum.
• Lunch- I make tuna salad or chicken salad and add some dried cranberries for a little zing.

Yes, I am lame in this department- cooking and meal prep is not my strength nor my interest. I need an attitude adjustment and some help from you with new ideas. EASY Ideas- anyone? Anyone? Anybody out there? Help!?

:)

FuN FaMiLY WeeKeNd

We had a slow, quiet, cozy, bonding weekend. Far from the weekend we talked about doing. We had originally planned to maybe head to San Diego for a weekend, since we didn't make it there this summer with the girls. BUT- it was too crazy to pull off, so we stuck around town.


Friday was the most jammed packed of the weekend. I got Lauren off to school and headed back home to tackle my closet that had been driving me nuts. I took two van loads of stuff away(Kate's old crib, rocker furniture and more). On the way home the girls started their nap. I got home about 2:00. I put them to bed and had just enough time to shower myself, dress and then bath the girls and got to Lauren's school on time to get her 45 minutes later.


Lauren announced she got 14 out of 14 on her spelling test and we could celebrate if I wanted to. :) I had already planned to take her by Walgreens where we had recently been informed they had Webkins much cheaper than other places we normally shop for them. She picked out a cow and we got out of there as fast as we could. We were scheduled to meet Nanny & Papa at the mall at 3:30. Nanny had entered Lauren into a drawing and she WON. We were delighted to have the opportunity to spend $150 in the children's department- Yippee, Hurray- Nanny.



It was a bit hard at first; juggling the other little ones, bathroom breaks and trying a ton of stuff on- we managed and got about 6 outfits and 1 more webkin out of the spree. How fun and what a special treat!!! Nick came up to the mall and we all ate at one of my favorite restaurants- Kona Grill. Yum... I love to eat out.





Saturday was a slow, steady working morning. I wanted to conquer the closet that had been cleared the day before. (I posted before and after video yesterday.) I let Nick sleep in and the girls and I were putzing through old papers, keepsakes, craft supplies, school notebooks, book, picture albums- blah blah blah. Nick woke took Lauren for a long walk and stopped for some lunch. Brooke, Kate & I opted for lunch at home and I put them down for naps to finish that project.



I finished got a shower and headed out to pick up Ky. Oh our Ky, she is a treasure, one of my top favorites & worthy of her own post. Most of you know her, but I will pay tribute to her soon in another post- once I have her approval. (I also want to do a list of my favorite things later too) Anyway, I picked up Kyand headed out for a dinner and movie with my mom -her post coming soon too. :) Nick went to the ASU game with Pops.





Sunday was church, our pastor spoke about being "Declared"- referred to baptism as an outward declaration of an inward decision. The challenge was -what is LIVING inside me that should be DEAD? and -what is DEAD in my heart that needs to be LIVING? You can check it out at http://www.mountainvalleychurch.org/

Nick and I were able to get out for a date night. We have a busy week ahead so it was good to talk over dinner and relax with a movie. I love being with Nick- he's "my true loves kiss" (the girls and I tease- it's from the Disney movie- Enchanted) and my best friend. I cherish that we have the opportunity to get out together- to date, to refresh- to stay close and nurture our love and marriage. Does my heart good!

Today a lazy morning- I slept in and woke to the girls playing in EVERY room- babies scattered, crafts started, grocery shopping in progress and Toy Story 2 playing in the playroom. Oh boy, I love to sleep in- but wonder if it's worth it. ?? : ) We corraled the girls item to the playroom and got ready for a trip to the mall- yes, again. We like to go to Fashion Square- it's like vacation. We walked around, made a stop into Claire's and grabbed some lunch. We left there and got Daddy a fix watching some skateboarding at The Wedge skate park.

Home for naps, laundry, grocery list, plan the schedule for week ahead, make dinner, dishes, bath, pick up. I settled down in the playroom with the girls for some bonding. We watch Disney Rescuers- one of my favorites. I still remember seeing that at a drive in with my family as a kid. Oh, those are some fun memories. :) I popped some popcorn and busied them with a snack while I finished folding, (no FOLDapalooza today) then cuddled up to enjoy. Daddy is traveling. The girls are in bed- and I am ready for the week.

Yikes- I guess that wraps it all up.

1st Week- 100 Hits

I did my first post 1 week ago tomorrow and I just got my 100th hit. How FUN- except I have only had 1 comment/ question. Come on people- talk to me...


Who's out there reading my post?